Some people who take on the role of victim might seem to enjoy blaming others for problems they cause, lashing out and making others feel guilty, or manipulating others for sympathy and attention. But, Botnick suggests, toxic behavior like this may be more often associated with narcissistic personality disorder.
Victim playing (also known as playing the victim, victim card, or self-victimization) is the fabrication or exaggeration of victimhood for a variety of reasons such as to justify abuse of others, to manipulate others, a coping strategy, attention seeking or diffusion of responsibility.
Hebrews 13:4
"Marriage is to be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, because God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
A irresponsible man who spends his time enjoying himself, especially one who behaves irresponsibly or has casual sexual relationship.
A life of a person who leads two different lives that are kept separate from each other, usually because one of them involves secret, often illegal, activities. to live/lead a double life.
In truth, Narcissists live more than a double life considering how they're presenting themselves to different crowds, wearing different masks. A spouse sees one variation, while friends, business partners, and family members may see an entirely different one.
